I was on the bus today around 7:57 and i was thinking that i don't usually like it when people tell me i'm doing something wrong. Even though i know what i am doing is wrong and it's almost a blessing that they're in my lives telling me what i do is wrong. Correcting me when i wrong and such. Usually i don't like it, i shut those people off my lives but lately i've come to realize it really is a blessing, it's like God is sending His message through His humans. :) and at the time, i feel on the spot, i feel embaressed, ashamed but then as the convo is finished, i feel happy inside, because i knew all along i had to change this one little thing about me, but i havent', so God empowered his humans to come say it to me and make me realize it. (: i'm so happy i'm a Muslimah, and i have people who dont' even know me come and give me advice and talk to me in such a respectful manner. . . just some thoughts.
moral/advice; when people tell you to change something about yourself, they're looking out for you, they're not trying to find flaws in you, not trying to bring you down. but it DOES depend on how they say it. if they pull you aside and advise you in something rather than embaress you in front of a group of people while screaming "HARAM! HARAM! HELLFIRE!" , it makes all the difference.
p.s;smile.bekind.
Ma3salama. AllahHAFIZ
